Although I have a new job, I’m continuing at my former job for one to two days a week. This is because I really like what I do there, and I like my clients, and my new job doesn’t actually technically let me “practice” law.
Here is the problem with working for free. And I find that this is true of pretty much any place where I have worked for free. You get taken advantage of. I’m not sure whether this is because the type of people who work for free are generally nice people who want to help out, or if employers really think, “lets get whatever we can while she’s here”. But over the last couple of weeks, I’ve been seeing more clients, when I was supposed to be seeing less, and getting roped into more cases.
For some, being taken advantage of is par for the course, part of paying your dues as a young attorney. But most of those people get paid for the work that they are doing, they are just being asked to do more. And I’m not talking about going above and beyond, I’m talking about being asked to do things that are outside of your job description.
Lately, in addition to being taken advantage of, I have been feeling a bit…abandoned and ignored. I think I established that I’m a bit needy. Mostly, I need supervision. I want to run all of the wills I draft past my boss, because two heads are better than one, he’s been doing this for longer, and I miss stuff. Sometimes I don’t think of things that should go in, or I forget to take something out. I can only catch so much on my own, or when I review them with clients.
Part of the reason for the abandonment is totally legitimate – we are in the middle of a huge case, that is incredibly intense and takes up most of my boss’ time. So he was out all day today on discovery while I ran around the office like a chicken with my head cut off trying to draft a “quick” special needs trust (they do not exist.) Nonetheless, part of the reason is because he can leave me to my own devices, and I’ll keep showing up and doing good work, since so far, I haven’t given him any reason to doubt that. Last week, I made a pretty big mistake though, and unfortunately but fortunately, that has finally gotten me back on his radar, with promises to sit down and go over my open matters. So hopefully that will happen so I can feel like I’m on solid ground.
So I need some lessons in getting what I want, without making a huge mistake to get it. Any tips on how to approach this without rocking the boat so much that it falls over? I would like to preserve a good relationship with the office and my boss, because I do genuinely like it and them. I also want to keep working there, because every day that I work as a lawyer is another day closer to the “3-5 years experience” that most of my dream jobs require.